I imagine that before we are born, we have made soul agreements with our family members to go through a certain part of life with them and to support each other to learn lessons and to heal. Those agreements can become clouded; obscured by the challenges of the physical realm and the darkness we each have come to purify. Often we can find ourselves wondering, “What was I thinking? Why did I ever agree to this relationship?” And yet, at the end of life, much can be revealed.
Memories come unbidden and the tenderness with them-my Dad holding me among the waves, holding my hand as we walk across the street, walking me toward my beloved on my wedding day. Yes, all the rancor and the fights, the anger and the darkness is there too, but it moves to the background and what is in the center, what is shining and true is the love.
What it is important to remember is this: With God, all things truly are possible. And no matter what pain and disappointment there has been on both sides throughout our lives, the re-experiencing, or even the experiencing for the first time of love is infinitely possible up until, and even beyond, the last breath of our parent-child journey.
Take heart, dear ones, as you go through these trying and painful times. All is well on both your parts. And all is being orchestrated for the greatest healing for each of you, no matter how impossible that may seem.
With Infinite Love,